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Couple Mediation

Crackling conflicts? Clarify constructively!
– HOUSE OF MEDIATION

It is not love that is lacking.

Conflicts don’t come with a big bang. They creep up on you. At first, there are small tensions, unspoken thoughts, evasive glances. This is followed by conversations that go nowhere. Misunderstandings. Frustration. Withdrawal. Justifications. And then, at some point, a single sentence – a single word – that makes everything explode.
The situation has reached an impasse; the fronts have hardened. Everyone feels misunderstood – and in the right. Everything has already been said – time and again – and yet nothing has changed. Instead, the conflict dominates everyday life: tension. Sleepless nights. Brooding. Anger. Disappointment. Helplessness. The feeling that things cannot go on like this.

Perhaps you’ve come to terms with it yourself, perhaps you’ve spoken to others – friends, family. Perhaps someone has advised you to draw a line under it once and for all. But is that what you want, or is there still a glimmer of hope deep down? Could there not be a solution after all? A joint solution that is fair, that revives love, that re-forges the bond, where in the end no one is left alone and the shared heart beats once more.

This is where mediation makes the decisive difference. Instead of a separation by compromise, a structured way out of the impasse – with room for plain speaking, mutual understanding and lasting agreements.

Do you recognise yourself here?

Hardened fronts – talks fail time and again

Decisions are not being made because no one is willing to give ground – and every step exacerbates the deadlock. With each attempt, the divide seems to grow wider.

The atmo­sphere is toxic – every­one feels they are in the right

The conversation swings between accusations, excuses and silence – everyone clings to their own version of the truth and no one feels understood anymore.

Shared experiences getting lost in the fog

The bond is fading, the past is becoming a blur, and the future is uncertain. Increasingly, the conflict is spilling over into our shared circle of friends and family.

You want to look to the future with clarity and confidence again

What do you really long for? To finally breathe deeply, with a clear view of the future – free from pressure, resent­ment and uncer­tainty. But without help, there is no common direction in sight.

Would you like to approach your conflict?

Mediation is a well-established method for this task.

Open up new perspectives through couple mediation!

Why HOUSE OF MEDIATION?

Because it takes more than just listening carefully.

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Allpartiality – impartiality newly defined

Instead of standing on the sidelines like a referee, I engage with you and everyone involved in a genuine way – by meeting you on equal terms and being fully present.
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Structured process with heart and attitude

A clearly defined process creates orientation, and together with sensitivity, we shed light on the critical points of the conflict in a way that stands the test of time.
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Observation skills & an eye for the essentials

Thanks to my background, I have a keen eye for detail and filter out the unimportant.

Pro Bono Mediation Munich (only for private persons)

Each month, I offer my time free of charge for disputes involving claims of less than €10,000, because your relationship is important to me. Simply send me a message with the subject line ‘Pro Bono Mediation Munich’.

What could you lose?

Are you still indifferent?

That makes sense, and not every conflict situation requires mediation.
That is why I have developed some free tools for analysis and self-help for you.
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Analysis: Could mediation help you?

With a compact questionnaire, you can find out in 2 minutes whether mediation is a suitable option for your case. Answer 11 short questions with ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ and receive a recommendation straight away.
It’s anonymous, non-binding and free of charge.

Junge Frau denkt über ihre aktuellen, zwischenmenschlichen Konflikte nach

Self-help in the event of a conflict

In the Coaching Guide, you will find three in-depth questions about your conflict situation. These will help you gain a fresh perspective – enabling you to understand what you have experienced so far in an objective and unemotional way.
There is no obligation and it is free of charge.

Felix-Alexander Seiterle, Familienmediator, München

Couple Mediation in Munich

My role as your mediator

My role is to guide you and your partner through the process of resolving your dispute. To this end, I am committed to assisting both of you – as parties involved in the conflict – to gain a clearer understanding of your own needs and those of the other one. Additionally, the origins and causes of the conflict will be explored, so that you can recognise familiar patterns in similar situations and avoid unnecessary escalations. Ultimately, the aim is for you as a couple to live happily together until death do you part.

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Collaboration is based on trust

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Initial consultation

A free initial consultation is a matter of course for me.

Travel & premise expenses

Expenses for premises and travelling expenses (outside Munich) will be considered individually, irrespective of a conflict resolution.

Cost overview

The following overview shows you the costs of your mediation depending on the gross annual income of your employee in dispute. Please note: You only pay if the conflict is resolved!

Annual gross income

Step 1
0 - 10,000 €

Step 2
10,000 - 25,000 €

Step 3
25,000 - 50,000 €

Step 4
50,000 € and more

Costs per conflict party (plus VAT)

Step 1
10.0% of the annual gross income

Step 2:
7.5% of the annual gross income

Step 3
5.0% of the annual gross income

Step 4:
2.5% of the annual gross income